Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Long Distance Relationships : What Pro And Cons? Is it healthy?

Must Read: Long Distance Relationship: What Pro And Cons? Is it healthy?

I can't stand it for another day
When you live so many miles away.
Nothing here is gonna make me stay,
(You) took me over, let me find a way.

Having someone you love and to be with the person is the greatest moment we ever want in our life. To have a good relationships is to be happy and to have a special someone to share your life with makes life worthwhile. But not all the relationships could have a good time, because of some reasons the couples have to stay apart. Surviving within a long distance relationship is most difficult and take hard work to keep it last longer.

Although it is a common that people who have a long distance relationships lead two separate lives, it is quite possible for two people to stay in touch everyday, plan their schedules together, and share their lives in spite of the distance that separates them. Living in this kind of relationship requires very strong trust, commitment, guidelines, and communication. Studies show that a majority of people involved in long distance relationships eventually break up. But it is not impossible to keep and live with it.

Long distance relationships, can actually be quite fun if two people are staying away for a short period of time, the duration is crucial but so is the attitude. Patience is one of the virtues that the couples will acquire if they learn to manage a long distance relationship. Other than that, the couple must keep in touch as often as they could. Of course it is an inexpensive way to stay in touch. The recipient can keep the letter and read it any time they miss you and need a hug. But you also can send more than letters, use e-mail or have a video call sometimes. Try to find the best way to connect to your love, in that way you'll keep the relationship alive and last long.

The most important in LDR is, to be honest and encouragement. In any condition, you must be honest and trust your love. If there are unsatisfied matter, do not keep it. Never avoid any assumption, say whatever u want to say. In that way, your partner will always know your feelings. Also always become the one who remind your love that both of you will survive for long relationships. Last but not least, always think positive and be happy in your life. You never know how wonderful and fun you can make by having a long distance relationships.

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For all my life, I always thinking that this kind of relationship only take place in movies or novels. But it seems might happened to me. Oh, what am I going to do about this? I've no experience nor idea how to make this relationship work and last long.

Must Read: Long Distance Relationship: What Pro And Cons?