Long Distance Relationships : What Pro And Cons? Is it healthy?

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I can't stand it for another day
When you live so many miles away.
Nothing here is gonna make me stay,
(You) took me over, let me find a way.

Having someone you love and to be with the person is the greatest moment we ever want in our life. To have a good relationships is to be happy and to have a special someone to share your life with makes life worthwhile. But not all the relationships could have a good time, because of some reasons the couples have to stay apart. Surviving within a long distance relationship is most difficult and take hard work to keep it last longer.

Although it is a common that people who have a long distance relationships lead two separate lives, it is quite possible for two people to stay in touch everyday, plan their schedules together, and share their lives in spite of the distance that separates them. Living in this kind of relationship requires very strong trust, commitment, guidelines, and communication. Studies show that a majority of people involved in long distance relationships eventually break up. But it is not impossible to keep and live with it.

Long distance relationships, can actually be quite fun if two people are staying away for a short period of time, the duration is crucial but so is the attitude. Patience is one of the virtues that the couples will acquire if they learn to manage a long distance relationship. Other than that, the couple must keep in touch as often as they could. Of course it is an inexpensive way to stay in touch. The recipient can keep the letter and read it any time they miss you and need a hug. But you also can send more than letters, use e-mail or have a video call sometimes. Try to find the best way to connect to your love, in that way you'll keep the relationship alive and last long.

The most important in LDR is, to be honest and encouragement. In any condition, you must be honest and trust your love. If there are unsatisfied matter, do not keep it. Never avoid any assumption, say whatever u want to say. In that way, your partner will always know your feelings. Also always become the one who remind your love that both of you will survive for long relationships. Last but not least, always think positive and be happy in your life. You never know how wonderful and fun you can make by having a long distance relationships.

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For all my life, I always thinking that this kind of relationship only take place in movies or novels. But it seems might happened to me. Oh, what am I going to do about this? I've no experience nor idea how to make this relationship work and last long.

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It's raining....in my heart

There're lots had happened lately. Lots of terrible and painful things. Make me always wet in tears. Come to think about all of that, I have no idea on how long i could bare to hang on anymore. Why is it have to be me? Because of someone I helped, I have to be suffered with lots of problem. Am i the one to blame of what I have done kindly to others? I keep wondering what mistakes I have done that I have to deal with all these hardness.

I look up on the sky above,
Just dark and clear sky up there,
Not even a single star glittering tonight,
I keep searching, hope that i could fine one,
I want to make a wish,
A wish that i hope will end all my suffers....

No one know what I am facing with,
No one know how hard for me to deal with those painful,
Everyday seem no hope last for me,
I only can pray and wait for all these to end,
But how long will it take?
Still I am alone, waiting of any miracle to happen....

Sitting lonely in the dark,
make me wonder of how lucky I am,
Even without lots of wealth in hand
I am still standing and strongly can breath the air,
Only that hunger and sadness fill in me all the time,
Other than that, I barely can fight for my life.

Why am I not thinking of this in the beginning?
There's someone there watching and always beside me all the time,
HE is there, HE never left me alone,
HE grant me with strength and love,
that make me standing everyday,
guide me to find my virtue and win my fight.

Through the darkness around me,
I can hear my own voices from my heart,
Why am I feel so upset while I can rely on HIM?
HE is always by my side, to watch over me,
My heart fills with hope and love,
Even i could realize tears running down my face....
I pray to HIM to give me more strength and faith
so i could deal with all these painful and hardness.

Hope and Lies

I never see any shooting star
but I hope I could see one
because I want to make a wish
wish that there will be someone
who will do anything for me...
even it'll cost a high price
that the per son will never put me in trouble
make me smile all the time
care for my needs and my feelings
never ever push me to do something
I am not capable of

If you are the one for me
make my life full of love
never tell lies to me
never do something bad on me
don't leave me
as i want to be with u forever

Happiness as light as air
Love as deep as ocean
Friends as solid as diamonds
ans Success as bright as gold
These will be my wishes for you
everyday...
that is all what I want to wish for
if i could see a shooting star
I really hope one will come soon
But if there is no shooting star
then my dreams is all just a dreams
and my wishes will never come true....

If there is no such a prince charming exists
I need to stop dreaming and never hope for more
I am happy of what I am
with my beloved family who always be at my side
If there is no one fror me to be loved
I'll be alone and I am happy with it....

Happy Eid Mubarak to all

Eventually I celebrate Eid Mubarak with my family in my granny's house. The house is nor too far from my home in town. After Eid prayer early in the morning, we start the journey by car. Before that we have very delicious Eid dishes such as rendang, ketupat and nasi himpit. Currently my family use two cars to get all back to village, one is my fathers' and the other one is my sisters'. I am happy because again this time my brother managed to fly home from Japan to celebrate Eid Mubarak with us. This year we have a family photo shooting before we go back to the village.

There are already my uncle and my cousins at the granny's house at time we get there. It is very nice and joyful to see each other again. We received many guests who come to the house and it is the best Eid Mubarak i have this year. My family stay at the village till evening before we go back home.

I wish all Happy Eid Mubarak and hope all my families and my friends are having a great Eid with their other relatives. May the spirit of Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness and Self-control dwell in the world as it is taught by Islam and other religions.

My beloved family~ Syawal 1431 h, Eid Mubarak 2010

*Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri, maaf zahir dan batin.*

Happiness :: What We Make Of Our Lives...or Don't.

Sometimes I feel that I am destined to be sad, to be alone all the time. I will never had a chance to get someone to cheer me up, to be by my side and to keep me calm. Every time something bad happened, it always happened after the good and happy time occurred. Why I have only short time to feel what it is fun and joy? Am I too bad to be happy like others? Am I not even worth to have a little moment of happiness?

Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose
(Helen Keller).

The truth is happiness come from within not from without. Sometime we can obtain happiness by giving not just by in having or in getting. Sharing is caring, caring is making you happy. Other than that, as a Muslim the way to get happy is by getting close to The Lord of Creation, Allah The Almighty. But not just every time you are in sad and unhappy that you're coming closer to Him. Every time and everywhere, you have to remember Him all the time.

Forgive everyone for everything. You must learn to give forgiveness to everyone because if not we are still hold on to anger and resentment. That's will never end. Giving forgiveness doesn't mean that we are weak. But by forgiving someone we give a great gift to ourselves~ the gift of happiness.

Happiness is not something anyone else can give us... or take away from us. Whatever our circumstances, we can create a joyful life... or a miserable life. It is up to us.

What Makes Me Feel Something For You....

Be my love...
please my angel of love, be the wings through which i am excluded from the untouched perils of this world. Lead me onto the uncommonly serene pavement, where all hatred and reality is exiled. Tell me you are there when i need you, hold me in your arms when i m with you and with the gentle stroke of your wonderous fingers touch my lips. Hold me until my fear subsides, and the darkness has drifted off.

Found love...
life is long and sometimes sweet then all at once a man you meet. A man so honest, a man so true, who gives you back. What once was you. I send to you though far a precious gift which is my heart. Just think of me before you sleep, my heart i give for you to keep honey.

My new love...
where do i begin? My heart is a flame from passion as i fall more in love with you. The sun doesnt compare to the heat that burns in my heart as i think of you. I have fallen deeply in love with you… unconditional… neverending.

How can a love like ours come to be? Two strangers who meet by chance, who share secrets, hope, dreams and desire…both have been hurt by love before… have cried many tears, felt the pain and sorrow of a broken heart and afraid to love again..but a spark began in our hearts as we talked and listened to each other…
A spark that grew into a flame. A flame that grew into a fire. A fire that grew into love. I seal my love to you with a kiss. I look to the future forget the past. The future lies with you each and everyday, as I fall more deeply in love with you.

I love you...
Love is a precious thing;
it is a feeling that make your heart sing.
Whether you are far or near
it is like whispering in my ear.
When you find true love
it is something you keep within your heart.
You are my description of love.
You are my description of friend..
you are my description of everything…
you are my description of beginning to end.
You have put me on a pedestal
You make me feel ten feet tall
You have always been there for me
your have loved me through it all
Your have stood by me through thick and thin,
you have always been patient and kind
just thought I’d let you know
you have the owner of this heart of mine.

So you ask how long I will love you…
well this is what I have to say past, present, future, always forever and a day.
I want to be your arms,
I want to feel your touch,
I need you very much.
No matter what happens they will always be here
because no one love you like I do.


David Ibrahim
April 6, 2010 at 9:38pm

The Person Only For Me

Try to find someone right for myself...
Someone who might be my soulmate....

I found…
the person only for me…
my special person…
my most important person…
my only person…

I’ve had really hard times before,
I’ve been through a lot of tough times…
and even now, my HEART is still hurts from some of them…
Really, really PAINful things.
Because I’ve lost something important…
The PAIN still remains, and still hurts…
But, I’m still looking for HIM…
The one who likes me as I am…
The person only for me…
and I found HIM…

But finding HIM was the beginning of something more PAINful…
Even if I could do something,
It was PAINful to be close together.
Seeing that person in PAIN, is PAINful…
Therefore, I hid from that person…
I disappeared because I LOVE that person…

But still…
not seeing that person is even more PAINful…
Not being able to see that person again…
is much more PAINful..
I left HIM…because I LOVE HIM.

Am I leaving HIM because I LOVE HIM?
I’m leaving HIM because it’s for his own HAPPINESS.
What does HAPPINESS mean?
HAPPINESS is being with the person you LOVE,
While being together,
many hard and PAINful things may happen,
but, being separate it’s much more PAINful…
I wish that you become HAPPY,
with the ONE you LOVE…














Tinta Emas@Azura H.
27 Mac 2010, 1:29am