Great reasons to be single

They say that the grass is greener on the other side. But is it? I believe everyone have a very own good and joyful life. But sometimes we encounter a hard time but that makes our life more interesting, don't you think so?

We live in a circle of living. In a season we have a very perfect life and extra good things happened to us. Then the next season, all that excitement and happiness are gone, especially with our relationship. The end of a relationship is inevitably a hard time for both parties involved and you can often find yourself wondering ‘what am I going to do now?’

There are many positive aspects of being in a relationship, but being single doesn’t have to be all doom and gloom and it is a time when you can do what you like, all for yourself. When you do find yourself a partner and settle down, gone will be the days when you can be totally self-centered and spontaneous. So make sure that you fill your single days with things that you really want to do, or couldn’t do before. Single life can be the most exciting time so check out why some of people are single and loving it.

Sleep like a starfish
What could be more delightful than nude spooning with your man as you float off to sleep? Having the complete bed to yourself, that's what. Spooning is okay for the first minute, but it's not so good when you in fact want to get some sleep and his arm starts squashing your boobs, randomly exploring, or you start getting a dead arm but dare not move for dread of unsettling him. There is also that added snoring in the ears. Now stretch out and sprawl.

Everything remains clean
One of the enjoyable things about being single is knowing that after the apartment is clean and tidied, it will remain that way, until YOU mess it up. No longer will you find that the washing machine or the clothes dryer is an extra drawer for forgotten garments. Or the bathroom has become a complete wet room, despite there being a bath mat (what do they do in there!) and the toilet seat will always be where you want it to be: Down! There won’t be piles of plates or stacks of glasses in the sink waiting to be magically placed into the dish washer by some unknown fairy.

Spend hours in the bath…
Without being impertinently interrupted with the words, ‘Are you done in there? I need the toilet!’ For the ideal single girl's bath-time extravagance, you will need: one bottle of fragrant bubble bath, one novel or stash of magazines, one glass of wine and one waterproof radio or your MP4. Now lie back, relax and bliss out in peace.

Be bad
Now, we aren’t suggesting that you go and break the law by carrying out some obscene offence here, but do something that will make you feel young and very much carefree. Whereas some men play the bad boy next to their girlfriend, the majority of men are typically required to tame up when they are in a relationship, so when they are single, they go crazy; it's time to be debaucherous and sinful just like them.

Habits
Being single means that you invariably don’t have to deal with someone else’s irritating habits. You know the ones we are talking about: leaving the toilet seat up, missing the toilet, personal hygiene, being ignored due to the passing 'hottie' and having important dates forgotten. The list goes on and we are sure that we don’t have to mention the others as you are well aware of them. So give your patience a well-earned break.

Other relatives
Another benefit of being single is that you don’t have to deal with your other half’s relatives. While it can be great to have a large support system at times and a big extended family, it is usually just an added headache that we would rather not have to deal with. Breathe a sigh of relief that you don't have to deal with them anymore.

Male friends
Now that you are single you will be able to reconnect your old male friends, which you may not have seen as often as when you were in a relationship. Girlfriends are great to have around and are irreplaceable, but sometimes it’s good to be one of the boys. You won’t have to constantly defend yourself and explain who your friends are and that NOTHING is going on and that they are just friends.

Take yourself out on a date
One of the great things in regards to being single is that you can be entirely selfish without offending anybody. So use the day doing the things YOU want to do. Have a lie-in in the morning and stay in bed, go for lunch with the girls, or to see a chick flick at the movies, watch trash TV, go to the hairdresser, take as long as you like or need to get ready to go out, or try on the total contents of your favorite clothes shop. Love thy self!

Getting to know someone new
Meeting someone new and getting to know them is a thrilling experience and one of the world’s exciting mysteries. What will they be like? What is sexy about them? Will they be good when you get intimate? If you are even just a little bit fascinated by people then you will undoubtedly find that dating has an intoxicating and invigorating appeal.

Sources: Flora McCraith, MSN

Searching for the Truth

Over and over the same thing happen to me. I don't know if I am done wrong or I am not able to do anything right at all. I admit, I am not coming from a rich family or a popular person during my years in school and I no beauty to impress with. I always and keep saying all these to any person who want to be friend with me, especially to man. But every time too they always say that it is not beauty or wealth that they seek. That is the beginning, all seems good and promising.

Then, in the middle of the new fresh relationship all those good and sweet talking become dull and exactly the opposite. For a small and tiny misunderstand, it somehow leading to a bigger crisis and more complicated. Not that the two heart have lose their love or faith to each other. The only thing that they might lost without they even know about is communication and trust.

How can a relationship will last long if those two heart seldom to talk and not believe in each other? To be loved and to love, one need to have trust and faith to his beloved. Love is not suppose to let his lover being sad or get hurt. To love someone with all your heart, you must learn how to accept her weakness and try to be comfort to each other. Tell her all your feelings and never skip anything that bears in your mind. If there is a secret not been told, even it only tiny matters then the relationship will never last for long.

This is what I try to look for, for all these years. I may have found the one man for me but he is not surely can accept me as who am I. He may said that I am beautiful not for the look of my face but he is attracted with my lovely heart. I don't know whether he is telling me the truth or just try to keep my heart for his. Now, I keep wondering to myself if I am ready to take seriously in this kind of relationship or just blindly belief those words that come from his mouth. But the one I am pretty sure that I have to listen to my heart. It is the only thing that I trust now, as there is still hope for me to keep this relationship last longer.

New Year gift >> A Man from London

Happy New Year to all!! Times sure does flowed fast. Another year had past and one more year to add. Do you have something good or interesting happened on your first day of new year? Well, I didn't say it is something special but it does makes me feel something will happen to me this year of 2011.

When I recall back, not even in my thought that i would have someone give me a surprise via my mailbox. Not even thinking that he would ask me to be his special friend. At first, i was thinking...is this a kind of joke? Just ignore him, I don't lose a thing. But despite that I've replied to his e-mail. I'm not the type of person who easily accept someone I don't know to be the person only for me. First of all I only want to be friendly to new people. Somehow this relationship become so much fun day after day. He helped me a lot and makes me happy. Although he is far away, we actually communicate everyday. That's what make him so special to me. A relationship will never mean anything if the two couple just barely speak to each other.

Other than that, I need a n honest, respectful and always keep promise kind of relationship. Whether it is a long distance or just in front of my eyes, I do wish he can be trust, nice and keep his words to me. All I want is he will always be at my side whenever I need him. Oh, did I mentioned that he is a muslim? Yes, he is. And I don't need any reason else (for now) for not to accept him. Anyway there're something else that I would have to consider as well. I do hope this is the best which HE is done for me.

Anyway, I wish this year will bring most joy and successful for me; as well to my family, my fellow friends and all of you out there. Be yourself, don't feel sad, share your feelings with someone u like and always think in positive way. In the end, you'll survive in any kind of relationship u have.

Long Distance Relationships : What Pro And Cons? Is it healthy?

Must Read: Long Distance Relationship: What Pro And Cons? Is it healthy?

I can't stand it for another day
When you live so many miles away.
Nothing here is gonna make me stay,
(You) took me over, let me find a way.

Having someone you love and to be with the person is the greatest moment we ever want in our life. To have a good relationships is to be happy and to have a special someone to share your life with makes life worthwhile. But not all the relationships could have a good time, because of some reasons the couples have to stay apart. Surviving within a long distance relationship is most difficult and take hard work to keep it last longer.

Although it is a common that people who have a long distance relationships lead two separate lives, it is quite possible for two people to stay in touch everyday, plan their schedules together, and share their lives in spite of the distance that separates them. Living in this kind of relationship requires very strong trust, commitment, guidelines, and communication. Studies show that a majority of people involved in long distance relationships eventually break up. But it is not impossible to keep and live with it.

Long distance relationships, can actually be quite fun if two people are staying away for a short period of time, the duration is crucial but so is the attitude. Patience is one of the virtues that the couples will acquire if they learn to manage a long distance relationship. Other than that, the couple must keep in touch as often as they could. Of course it is an inexpensive way to stay in touch. The recipient can keep the letter and read it any time they miss you and need a hug. But you also can send more than letters, use e-mail or have a video call sometimes. Try to find the best way to connect to your love, in that way you'll keep the relationship alive and last long.

The most important in LDR is, to be honest and encouragement. In any condition, you must be honest and trust your love. If there are unsatisfied matter, do not keep it. Never avoid any assumption, say whatever u want to say. In that way, your partner will always know your feelings. Also always become the one who remind your love that both of you will survive for long relationships. Last but not least, always think positive and be happy in your life. You never know how wonderful and fun you can make by having a long distance relationships.

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For all my life, I always thinking that this kind of relationship only take place in movies or novels. But it seems might happened to me. Oh, what am I going to do about this? I've no experience nor idea how to make this relationship work and last long.

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